There’s nothing worse than drama, or more specifically relationships that involve drama. I honestly just can’t be bothered with people like this, no matter how much I like them (or in some cases want to fuck them). If I’m at a party or out with someone and all of a sudden the conversation turns from flirting to, “Oh My Gosh and then this happened, and he said this, and she did that and…” I honestly just tune out and in my head I’m screaming, “NEXT!!” Please people, I’m here to have fun so check your drama at the door, relax and have a good time!
I was at a party one night, drinking, flirting and having a good time of course. I met this gorgeous girl who I was absolutely attracted to until…:::drum roll::: the drama train arrived! The worst part was, as she told this long drawn out tale (insert eye roll by everyone present) she cast herself as the victim.
Drama doesn’t just happen to you by accident. Drama is something you invite into your life, create for yourself or you’re associated with people who bring drama into your life. Either way, it’s not some fluke thing and you are not a victim princess, so get over yourself.
People who have drama in their lives, in my experience, have very low self-esteem and are attention whores. They have this need to always play the victim, to have people feel sorry for them and to keep the focus of everything on them.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m a loyal friend and would give the shirt off my back and stilettos of my feet to help a friend. For anyone that has seen the movie The Town, I’m Jim in this scene (one of my favorites):
With that said, I don’t do drama. I’m a pretty laid back person for the most part. Don’t fuck with me or my family, and we’re good. I let a lot slide, I don’t judge others; I’m more of a live and let live kinda gal.
So, when I first meet someone and they are already dishing their drama to me, that’s a red flag to grab my fucking drink and RUN!
People, I’m just here for a good time so can you do us all a favor and check your drama at the door?