In Love, Actions Speak Louder Than Words!

Those of you who are regular BSG readers know that I am not the mushy, hearts and flowers, let’s talk about us, express my emotions kind of girl. That’s not to say that I’ve never been in love or said the “L” word, because I have; I just don’t drizzle the “L” word on everything! When it comes to relationships and the “L” word, I have a firm philosophical belief: When it comes to expressing to…

"In Love, Actions Speak Louder Than Words!"

Not All Relationships End Because They’re Bad

Everyone—single, dating, in a relationship or presently married—has had their fair share of shitty relationships. Let’s face it, in the cesspool called ‘dating’, it’s far easier to find a shitty match and end up in relationship hell than it is to put the effort into finding a soul mate. But what happens when things just end, not because they’re bad, but just…because? It’s no secret that I’ve dated a lot! Sure, I’ve had my share…

"Not All Relationships End Because They’re Bad"

Weddings and the Single Girl

‘Tis the season to wed apparently and every wedding has to have the token singles table. Whether your in the wedding or simply attending as a guest, your friend’s and family’s wedded bliss can end up costing you a fortune both financially and to your self-esteem. Being single for these weddings can have you wanting to spend the night at the open-bar drinking your night away. First, no matter how much women say they want…

"Weddings and the Single Girl"

Does Love Have To Equal Marriage?

We all know how the story goes: girl meets guy. Girl and guy date. Guy and girl fall in love. Girl or guy gets spooked/fucks up somehow and they split. Guy and girl realize they want to try again. Girl and guy are back in a relationship. This scene may play out a few more times and then girl and guy decide it’s been a  few years and it’s time to get married. OK so…

"Does Love Have To Equal Marriage?"

Love Lessons: Dating Advice for Teen Girls

OK class, school is in session and Boston Single Girl is your sexy Professor of all things dating! Now, take a seat, grab a pen and listen closely ladies. Today’s lesson: dating advice for teen girls. Now before you more mature readers shake your heads at me and wag your fingers at the thought of moi giving dating advice to young girls, don’t get your panties in a bunch. You, yourself, were once a young…

"Love Lessons: Dating Advice for Teen Girls"

Happy Anti Valentine’s Day

Valentine’s Day. Every year on February 14th everyone looses their fucking mind! Single girls go all boo-hoo because they’re single and lonely. Girls in relationships of any sort get all demanding and set their expectations for what they require from their significant other extremely high. And why? Well because this is a day for romance, right? Wrong! Valentine’s Day is the most unromantic day of the year. Now before you say that I’m just some…

"Happy Anti Valentine’s Day"

Free Valentine’s Day Gifts

What do most people want for Valentine’s Day? Forget the chocolate and roses, we all just want to get laid! Whether we are single, dating or married, all any human wants is raw, animalistic, passionate sex for V-day. Well my loves, I’m here to help you with that! All this week, Sunday February 9-Wednesday February 12, I will be giving away one sexy prize after another. So what’s in my naughty bag of treats? Take…

"Free Valentine’s Day Gifts"

Why Would You Contact Your Ex’s Current?!

Have you ever heard the saying “Curiosity killed the cat”? I’m just as curious and inquisitive as the next gal, but sometimes you just have to lock that shit up! When? Oh, how about when it involves an ex! Imagine this: you split up months ago,haven’t had contact in months, and then WHAM all of a sudden the ex comes crawling out of the wood work. Readers, there’s never a good reason to contact an…

"Why Would You Contact Your Ex’s Current?!"

The Yucky Love Stuff

J: all I’m saying is that, some people might find that kind of perfection -boring, day after day, year after year M: see that’s what i thought at first..how can you like someone that perfect? no potential for long-range likability .but then she does have her few good traits.. J: such as? M: well we’ve got..when I hug her, even in public I don’t hafta let go right away, she lets me hold her — as long as I want –silence– M:…

"The Yucky Love Stuff"

Love: When to Walk Away, When to Stay

While my blog was under construction these last few weeks, my relationship with Mr. Sports Fan has gone through some construction of it’s own. We’ve quickly gone from project management, to total destruction, to rebuilding and back to project management in just a couple of weeks. The whole devastating ordeal has left me wondering: When do you walk away from love and when should you stay? I don’t even really know when or how it…

"Love: When to Walk Away, When to Stay"