Patience is a Virtue, Especially When Dating

Patience is a virtue, or so they say, right? In a world full of technology and instant information and gratification, patience is not something a lot of people have these day. All too often I’m asked, or I hear, things like “Why hasn’t she called me,” or “Why doesn’t he text me back?” We concentrate so much on needing an instant reply, that instant gratification, that it consumes us. But patience really is a virtue,…

"Patience is a Virtue, Especially When Dating"

What I Have Learned from Dating Younger Men

No matter what, every dating story always starts with girl meets boy. In this case, boy and girl have an attraction, excellent conversation, and Oh! That smile, those eyes, that ass! Girl is smitten with this boy…and then she finds out that while she was heading to her first high school keg party senior year, he was wrapping up a fun filled year in the 4th grade! In my experience, dating younger men has it’s pros and…

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What I Have Learned from Dating Older Men

I’m not sure when it started or how; maybe it was my infatuation with grown men in uniform which began when I was a little girl or maybe just the fact that I’ve always been more mature than people my own age. Whatever the cause, I’ve always found myself dating older men. Sure, I’ve dated my share of guys around my age, but almost never younger than me (though I’ve had a few younger men).…

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What to Expect When Dating an Independent Woman

Complicated. Intimidating. Fierce. Cautious.  These are just some of (the nice) words used to describe independent women. But if you are dating an independent woman, I’m sure she is someone who is also ambitious, strong, empowered, inspiring and free. Dating an independent woman can be exciting and scary at the same time…or, so I’m told from the men whom I’ve dated! When you’ve been living on your own as long as I have (since I…

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The Night I Played with Fantasy Daters

Last night I did something just a little naughty… I played with a man AND a woman! It was intimate, it was fun and I can’t wait to do it again. What am I talking about? Well, the Fantasy Dating game of course! (I know what you were thinking you dirty little devils!) I had the awesome pleasure of being a guest on Fantasy Daters Radio with hosts Suzanne and Rob of Fantasy Dating Game.…

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Stop Trying to Get Your Boyfriend to Chase You!

OK Ladies, what is going on here?! Articles are popping up all over in the place, online and in print on how to get your boyfriend to chase you. In fact, I just searched those exact terms in Google and it resulted in over 11 million results in less than a minute! Seriously ladies?! Since this seems to be something that is on the minds of a lot of females, I decided to do a…

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Hey Baby, What’s Your Type?

At some point in our lives the “what’s your type” question is bound to pop up at least once (usually more) whether it’s asked by a well-meaning friend or family member, a quiz in a magazine or through some soul searching of our own. What’s your type? What does that question even mean? (eHarmony has a “type” article that I found kinda interesting) I’ve dated my fair share of the opposite sex over the course…

"Hey Baby, What’s Your Type?"

Patti’s No Sex Before Monogamy Rule

By now, everyone has at least heard of Patti Stanger and her show Millionaire Matchmaker. For those of you who have been in a coma or lost on a deserted island for years thus rendering you clueless about Patti the Matchmaker, here’s a clip:   I must confess that Mr. Sports Fan and I love this show, so much so that we DVR it; it’s a dirty little secret of ours. We love people watching…

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Not All Relationships End Because They’re Bad

Everyone—single, dating, in a relationship or presently married—has had their fair share of shitty relationships. Let’s face it, in the cesspool called ‘dating’, it’s far easier to find a shitty match and end up in relationship hell than it is to put the effort into finding a soul mate. But what happens when things just end, not because they’re bad, but just…because? It’s no secret that I’ve dated a lot! Sure, I’ve had my share…

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The Ex That Can’t Let Go

We all have that one ex that either we can’t let go of or that won’t let go of us. For whatever reason, things just didn’t work out and you parted ways, it happens. I have at least one ex who just can’t seem to let go of something that, I think, we never even had and that someone is Mr. G-spot. He and I “dated” for about 2 months back in the fall of 2011…

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