A Guy’s Perspective on Blowjobs: How to Give and How to Receive!

Oct 01, 2014 No Comments by

 Fellow dating blogger Kevin Alexander and I were chatting via email about various dating topics recently. Of course, when you put two sexy, single dating bloggers together, even in cyber space, the conversation is bound to get steamy.  In the midst of our tantalizing conversation, I used my female powers of seduction to persuade young […]

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My Journey Toward Commitment Phobia (and Halfway Back)

Sep 24, 2014 9 Comments by

I wasn’t always like this; I wasn’t always this woman who exudes sex and femininity and yet runs screaming at any sign of commitment. There was a time in my life when I didn’t have trust issues, when I freely loved with my whole heart, not waiting for the other stiletto to drop because they […]

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In Love, Actions Speak Louder Than Words!

Sep 06, 2014 19 Comments by

Those of you who are regular BSG readers know that I am not the mushy, hearts and flowers, let’s talk about us, express my emotions kind of girl. That’s not to say that I’ve never been in love or said the “L” word, because I have; I just don’t drizzle the “L” word on everything! When […]

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Patti’s No Sex Before Monogamy Rule

Aug 21, 2014 13 Comments

By now, everyone has at least heard of Patti Stanger and her show Millionaire Matchmaker. For those of you who have been in a coma or lost on a deserted island for years thus rendering you clueless about Patti the Matchmaker, here’s a clip:   I must confess that Mr. Sports Fan and I love […]

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Not All Relationships End Because They’re Bad

Aug 02, 2014 2 Comments

Everyone—single, dating, in a relationship or presently married—has had their fair share of shitty relationships. Let’s face it, in the cesspool called ‘dating’, it’s far easier to find a shitty match and end up in relationship hell than it is to put the effort into finding a soul mate. But what happens when things just […]

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The Ex That Can’t Let Go

Jul 12, 2014 3 Comments

We all have that one ex that either we can’t let go of or that won’t let go of us. For whatever reason, things just didn’t work out and you parted ways, it happens. I have at least one ex who just can’t seem to let go of something that, I think, we never even […]

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Weddings and the Single Girl

Jun 25, 2014 5 Comments

‘Tis the season to wed apparently and every wedding has to have the token singles table. Whether your in the wedding or simply attending as a guest, your friend’s and family’s wedded bliss can end up costing you a fortune both financially and to your self-esteem. Being single for these weddings can have you wanting […]

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The Battle of the Sexes (A.K.A Shit You Don’t Do But Should)

Jun 12, 2014 7 Comments

A lot of different things have inspired this  rant post, but it has to be said. Men and women would be so much happier if they stopped bitching, whining and show boating to their friends about the opposite sex and just grew the fuck up! That’s right, I said it… grow the fuck up! The […]

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Can A Guy Survive Bad Sexual Chemistry?

Jun 04, 2014 4 Comments

I’ve talked a lot about whether or not bad sexual chemistry is something that can be survived and you all no where I stand on this… hell no it can’t! But what do guys think when slipping it to her makes them wish they had slipped right out the door instead? Joshua Pompey is an online […]

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Sex Positive: Fly Your Slut Flag With Pride!

May 24, 2014 7 Comments

It’s 2014 and yet we still hear the same words used to describe women who enjoy sex: slut, whore, loose, easy, tramp, dirty. Anyone who visits here regularly knows that one of my pet peeves is the double standard which exists between men and women when it comes to their sexual exploits. I say instead […]

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