Please Check Your Drama At The Door!

Nov 19, 2014 4 Comments by

There’s nothing worse than drama, or more specifically relationships that involve drama. I honestly just can’t be bothered with people like this, no matter how much I like them (or in some cases want to fuck them). If I’m at a party or out with someone and all of a sudden the conversation turns from […]

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To Love and Support While He Serves and Protects

Oct 22, 2014 3 Comments by

It’s no surprise that I have a fetish for men in uniform—let me rephrase that—for men in authoritative uniforms; cops, firefighters and especially military. This lust for  a sexy man in a crisp  uniform began when I was a little girl at my cousin’s wedding. Yes, even at 3 years old, as I paraded my […]

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Hey Baby, What’s Your Type?

Oct 15, 2014 6 Comments by

At some point in our lives the “what’s your type” question is bound to pop up at least once (usually more) whether it’s asked by a well-meaning friend or family member, a quiz in a magazine or through some soul searching of our own. What’s your type? What does that question even mean? (eHarmony has […]

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When Sex Leads to Broken Furniture

Oct 08, 2014 4 Comments

Have you ever had one of those wild, rip each other’s clothes off, tear the room up sex sessions with your lover? You know (or I hope you do) the kind. I had one of these nights recently and, in addition to walking a little funny the next day, it also resulted in broken furniture! […]

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A Guy’s Perspective on Blowjobs: How to Give and How to Receive!

Oct 01, 2014 5 Comments

 Fellow dating blogger Kevin Alexander and I were chatting via email about various dating topics recently. Of course, when you put two sexy, single dating bloggers together, even in cyber space, the conversation is bound to get steamy.  In the midst of our tantalizing conversation, I used my female powers of seduction to persuade young […]

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My Journey Toward Commitment Phobia (and Halfway Back)

Sep 24, 2014 9 Comments

I wasn’t always like this; I wasn’t always this woman who exudes sex and femininity and yet runs screaming at any sign of commitment. There was a time in my life when I didn’t have trust issues, when I freely loved with my whole heart, not waiting for the other stiletto to drop because they […]

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In Love, Actions Speak Louder Than Words!

Sep 06, 2014 19 Comments

Those of you who are regular BSG readers know that I am not the mushy, hearts and flowers, let’s talk about us, express my emotions kind of girl. That’s not to say that I’ve never been in love or said the “L” word, because I have; I just don’t drizzle the “L” word on everything! When […]

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Patti’s No Sex Before Monogamy Rule

Aug 21, 2014 13 Comments

By now, everyone has at least heard of Patti Stanger and her show Millionaire Matchmaker. For those of you who have been in a coma or lost on a deserted island for years thus rendering you clueless about Patti the Matchmaker, here’s a clip:   I must confess that Mr. Sports Fan and I love […]

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Not All Relationships End Because They’re Bad

Aug 02, 2014 2 Comments

Everyone—single, dating, in a relationship or presently married—has had their fair share of shitty relationships. Let’s face it, in the cesspool called ‘dating’, it’s far easier to find a shitty match and end up in relationship hell than it is to put the effort into finding a soul mate. But what happens when things just […]

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The Ex That Can’t Let Go

Jul 12, 2014 5 Comments

We all have that one ex that either we can’t let go of or that won’t let go of us. For whatever reason, things just didn’t work out and you parted ways, it happens. I have at least one ex who just can’t seem to let go of something that, I think, we never even […]

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